ppl who oppose gender affirming care for kids are nuts like the extent of medical intervention for trans kids is maybe puberty blockers but they’ll still be like “SO UR SAYING WE SHOULD LET TODDLERS HAVE TOP SURGERY???????” barbara toddlers do not have a top to surgery
Not queer as in “queer is not a slur” but queer as in “I do not give a fuck if its a slur, you don’t get to censor my identity regardless”. Queer as in “I HOPE my identity upsets you”. Queer as in “my identity is not only a slur but a threat”
queer as in “every word we have used to describe ourselves has been turned around and used against us. so no, i will not surrender another word to those who wish to shame us out of existence.”
trans women ARE beautiful and it’s literally fine and normal to like the way trans women look. it’s not inherently fetishistic or chaser-y or bad if you are respectful to the trans women and transfems you find attractive. speaking on what it is about transfems that you find attractive doesn’t make you predatory or a bad queer person. the key is how you behave about your attraction. if you respect the boundaries of those you are talking about and treat them as people, you have every right to talk about your attraction
liking women with deep voices is a good thing. liking women with strong jaws and facial hair is a good thing. liking women with small or no breasts is a good thing. liking women with no or subtle curves is a good thing. liking women with penises is a good thing. liking trans women is a good thing. it really is. none of these things are bad. please embrace liking the traits that make trans women and transfems who they are. that’s the whole point of t4t love
Had a woman bring in her ferret for an exam and when I went into the room a second ferret poked its head out of her bag. In delighted surprise I exclaimed “oh you have two!” and she immediately responded “yes, I’m a small business owner”
